For All Sensitive Souls Out There

If you feel that your soul is more sensitive than the average the world often can feel just too harsh and too loud to bear. For people, who often been labelled “too sensitive”, it can be life changing to find out that their sensitivity is not a weakness, or some kind of disorder, but in fact a normal variation amongst human beings and many other living creatures. Dr. Elaine Aron, a research psychologist in the US has been publishing books in the past 20 years based on her research with people who have more finely tuned nervous system. She wrote the seminal book: The Highly Sensitive Person, which changed the lives of millions of sensitive people already about the characteristics of 15-20% of the population, who has Sensory Processing Sensitivity (or SPS – the scientific term for high sensitivity).  That is a very high return for your money or a trip to the library! There is just a bit of your time and energy to invest.

Time and energy however are rarely small things for highly sensitives. So, you may wonder: “why should I sacrifice my precious spare time by reading yet another newsletter or a book?” I know this feeling. There is just so much information coming in these days! So, I am careful myself about what I let in, to avoid getting overwhelmed. I think I am not alone with this as an HSP – we are all familiar with the dreaded feeling of “TOO MUCH”.

I wouldn’t write the newsletter called HSP News, if I wouldn’t believe that hearing about SPS can make a big difference to people. I know how it transformed my life to learn about this and keep hearing similar stories from others, as well. HSPs, who finally understand what makes them so different or parents of highly sensitive children, who understand that their “problem” child is perfectly normal, just have very different needs from the average. One of the most hurtful experience for HSPs is the sense of isolation. The feeling of not belonging to the world, which blasts non-sensitive ideals 24/7 and so loud that we can feel very alone at times with our need for something quiet and carefully formed.

I am hoping to create a quiet corner here, where the balance will be different. Where you’ll find out about people, thoughts, events that can resonate more with all the highly sensitive souls out there. The only thing I want to shout about perhaps is that we are not alone! Up to 15-20% of the population is highly sensitive after all – that is 9-13 million people in the UK alone! Of course, there is still an amazing variety amongst HSPs. Apart from our sensitivity, we have other aspects to our personality and life experiences that makes us all very unique. You may find it interesting to read about the HSP subcultures, and see if you recognise any of the HSP types there.

What HSPs share however, is our highly sensitive nervous system. It evolved to notice and process subtle information deeply and learn more from experience. This is why I love to share information about all this. I know that it can be empowering for HSPs to have the right information about their trait. When information is right, it will fit your experience. I just encourage you to trust more what you already know about yourself (or someone else you know) deep down. Being more sensitive to events and your environment is a real mixed bag of advantages and challenges. Luckily, you can learn now from our shared experiences and understanding. You can also meet HSPs online, who are usually also new to all this and would like to discuss what it means to them. Feel free to bring your own questions along, if you have some.

Reading information about high sensitivity, like the HSP News and letting others know about it can be a very small step to take towards creating a very different kind of life. Just imagine for a moment a world, where people would have more awareness about SPS. Where children would be brought up to nurture their sensitivity – as opposed to hiding it or “toughen it up” – and to learn to live a life fitting who they are, without being labelled as weird, antisocial or quirky. Where HSPs wouldn’t have to struggle to survive inhospitable environments and could thrive by finding support and ways to live and work that suits them. If only, we could free up all that time and energy used up by misunderstanding and unrealistic expectations! I believe everyone – not just HSPs – would benefit from a world like that.

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